by Bez Stone | Sep 23, 2025 | Uncategorized
When couples come to me because she’s lost interest in sex, I hear the same theories over and over: “Maybe it’s her hormones.” “She’s just getting older.” “Women don’t need sex as much as men do.”...
by Bez Stone | Sep 23, 2025 | Uncategorized
I’ve been exactly where you are. He’s feeling rejected, and she’s feeling broken. You fight about sex instead of having it. You feel like roommates instead of lovers. One or both of you is reaching a breaking point around the tension in your sex...
by Bez Stone | May 13, 2025 | Uncategorized
When a couple tells me they’re struggling with sex—often because one person wants more and the other wants less—I don’t start by asking about positions or past trauma. I ask the person who wants less sex this: “How would you feel if I told you that tonight, you have...
by Bez Stone | Apr 29, 2025 | Category 4
Most couples think their sex life is struggling because of hormones, kids, aging, or stress. But there’s something deeper going on—and once you see it, you can’t unsee it. It’s a truth so obvious we can easily overlook it, overcomplicating the problem by looking...