Welcome to Infinite Sex
Your Way Out of the “He Wants More Sex than She Does” Trap
Break Free from Sexual Power Struggles
Sex Coaching
I help couples where one partner’s lost their sex drive and it’s become a problem. When you’re not interested and your partner is (or vice-versa) I can help.
Her Libido isn't Gone
It’s just buried under old wiring. Let’s revive it and set it free.
What’s missing in your sex life? How could it be even better?
One-on-One Coaching
For individuals seeking sexual empowerment, whether single, dating, or married.
Couples' Coaching
For couples ready to have radically fulfilling sex and connection with each other.
Online Courses
Coming soon! Practical, playful tools to transform your sex life at your own pace!
What Is Infinite Sex?
Your way out of the “he wants more sex than she does” trap
You’ve tried scheduling sex, communicating better, or spicing things up with lingerie. But you’re still stuck in the same exhausting pattern: one of you is feeling constantly rejected, the other feeling pressured and turned off.
Infinite Sex offers a revolutionary solution to transform sexual obligation into authentic desire. This isn’t about a hot new technique, but rather a revolutionary framework for sex that creates mutual fulfillment instead of a one-sided, temporary fix.
Who’s It For? (And Why I Care so Much)
I created Infinite Sex because I was once trapped in a sexless marriage, feeling broken and hopeless. I used to avoid going to bed, dreading that same fight about sex again. I blamed myself. I blamed him. I had no idea what had happened to me.
What I discovered was: there’s nothing wrong with me or my partner. Like most couples, we’d been handed a script that systematically stifles women’s desire over time. Now I have sex I genuinely love and want—often more than my male partners. And I’ve dedicated my life to helping other couples escape the trap I was stuck in, because no one should have to feel as hopeless as I once did. Your relationship isn’t doomed. Your libido isn’t broken. You just need a different map—and I’m here to give it to you.
What is The Process Like?
My approach is practical and transformative. Instead of analyzing what’s wrong with your relationship, we focus on creating new experiences that rebuild authentic desire and connection.
I’ve spent over a decade helping thousands of couples escape the “he wants more/she doesn’t” trap through hands-on exercises and revolutionary insights about how pleasure actually works. My clients don’t just understand their problems better—they solve them through specific practices that create lasting change.
This isn’t traditional talk therapy or generic relationship advice. It’s a proven method for rewiring how you connect sexually, based on understanding the fundamental differences in how men’s and women’s bodies respond to intimacy.
15-Minute Intro Call
Get to know me better, share about your situation, and let’s see if working together makes sense in a complimentary, no-pressure call.
Hour-Long Coaching for Individuals
I offer hour-long coaching sessions for individuals where we’ll explore what you want and how you can have it, rather than just dream about it.
90-Minute Coaching for Couples
For couples, I offer 90-minute sessions so there’s adequate time for exploration. I’ll hand-pick activities for you to try on your own time, and then in our coaching sessions, we’ll smooth over any bumps and unpack what’s come up so you can make real gains and build a pleasurable, connected foundation together.
Infinite Sex Bedroom Experiments
I’ve created hundreds of fun, edgy, playful, sex life-expanding activities for couples to explore.
These are not sex positions or gimmicks. They are exploratory practices to push edges, reveal erotic truths, and transform you as a lover.
Included with coaching. Online courses coming soon!
About Me
I’m Bez Stone, Stanford-educated writer, sex coach, TEDx speaker (yes, on female orgasm!), and unapologetic champion of deep, real, transformative erotic connection. I’m also the creator of the Sauce, a sexy, edge-pushing monthly event in Santa Cruz where conscious community and playful debauchery collide.
For over a decade, I’ve helped individuals and couples break free from sexual scripts and discover sex that works for them, not just what they were taught to settle for. My approach is practical, playful, and a little rebellious. Equal parts MILF and mystic, I’m not here to give you the same tired advice; I’m here to help you get radically honest, push your edges safely, and build the skills you need to become the kind of lover you really want to be.
Whether you’re single, dating, married, or somewhere in between, I believe radival erotic fulfillment is available to all of us, and I’m here to show you how.
Testimonials
“It was hard to admit that something was amiss in sex, even though I knew it wasn’t what it could be. Changing our dynamic took a third party—and Bez is great. I trust her completely.
“Bez is pioneering a revolutionary, raw, and honest conversation around sex. My husband and I were already deeply in love, but working with Bez has blown open the doors to pleasure and connection. If you want to invigorate your sex life, work with her!”
“I used to make backhanded jokes about this kind of thing. Now, I’m excited about it. I’m feeling closer to my girlfriend every day. The sex keeps getting better and better. She’s happy. What more could I want?”